Relax soldier

Seriously. Some guys just really don't get it. So a friend of mine just got back from a funeral, and by friend I really mean an actual friend, and he seemed all upset and down so I give him a hug. Next thing I know he's standing at full attention and ready for action. I know it's all biology and boys will be boys, but he didn't even release me from the hug. He just kept holding on to me, like he was so grief-stricken. I literally had to pull myself away. Okay maybe I'm being harsh, but I would think that in that situation a guy would not prolong it by continuing to hold on to me. And, I don't know, maybe be a little embarrassed. Am I missing something? When I pulled away it was like "What the heck?". Like I was supposed to stay there or something. Like I should have enjoyed that. Then all he can manage to do is look everywhere but my eyes, and he wasn't bashful about it. I don't care if you're grief-stricken, the kind of comfort you're looking for is not coming from me. I could not get away fast enough. Just a tip guys; making it obvious that you're picturing a girl naked is not a turn on or a compliment. Right now I wish I did have a husband who would have been standing there with me and could have knocked my friend's teeth out. Am I wrong here? It just gave me the creeps.